Man, there's a great many things going on in culture right now and I've been doing a lot of catch-up. This is especially true in relation to a bunch of these crazy outbursts and highly talked about public displays and no, I don't mean people calling our president a liar on national TV or comparing Obama to Hitler and even those who have crazily and recently called him Antisemitic for just trying to portray both Palestinians and Israelis for being flawed human beings who have both done things that are not always above reproach for very different reasons, both just and unjust. Sorry for this diversion, but I don't want to get into politics and specifics, so please anyone who reads this don't respond to this with political comments. I just wanted to make it clear that's not what I'm talking about, but that it oddly has a shakey, but still somewhat relevant connection to other things going on.
What I really am talking about is in relation to sports, entertainment and celebrity. And there are three prominent cases that I was kind of late some more than others. Two cases that give me a kind of semi-despair and one that gives me hope and makes me proud of the person. Okay, so here we go.

The first case is of an athlete, one who despite his recent profoundly human and flawed behavior is still one of my favorite athletes of all time, basketball legend, Michael Jordan. Ever since I was a young child in my budding years of sports viewing and participation, Jordan and his team, the Chicago Bulls has been a big part of my life. In some ways, the Bulls were the original favorite sports team for me and despite what some people may call my obsession with so-called frontrunners, I assure you I am still an avid, but sadly lax fan of the Bulls. He was beacon to what was possible and what someone at their top form looks like and he made me love watching each and every game I could with him and the Bulls, especially in the postseason. And as I have gone further in my life sports have taken a backseat to my primary love and career goal, being a part of art, specifically, film. But when I was young there was period where I want to be a basketball player and it's partially because of him. Too bad I wasn't very good and most attempts at the sport were fruitless, but despite that I still love the game, college and pro, and love to watch and dream of another life being like Mike.
So I have to say, just a little bit ago, part of that dream and of my childhood died. Which is a good and a bad thing. Good because there is part of your childhood that should die as you grow and see things for how they really are. Bad because it is still initially hard to take. This happened after I recently watched MJ's Hall of Fame acceptance speech. Basically, he felt compelled to not just say thank you and say some brief words, but to go on for many minutes in a very me-centered speech using it as a platform to supply digs at others and then talk about his motivation via people challenging him. It doesn't sound so bad, but when I watched the video, it amazed me how seemingly ungracious he was and how he proclaimed himself even further the best player to play the game. That is true, I think, but he didn't have to express it himself, it feels like he was just shoving in front of people's faces even further again, uplift his own ego, make fun of others and just make the night even more about him and how he's the greatest. There is a lot of division on this subject from writers and fans, but I just me, and for me it just felt so cheap and sadly made me lose some of the respect I had for him.
For some further context about me, I have a strict policy about performers/artists/whoever in the spotlight. That policy is, no matter the other parts of their life, I can still respect them and their craft, no matter who they are as a person. There are people specially in my area of expertise, it just means I know a good amount it nothing more, in film. There are filmmakers like Oliver Stone, Spike Lee, Lars von Trier, and actors like Sean Penn and others who I like them for being brash and outspoken, but still realize they are not always perfect and some of them can come off as jerks. MJ, I feel the same way about and despite this horrid behavior and his tumultuous personal life, I still love him as that player, but it was to watch him be so pig-headed and self-centered. I still wish he had acted like other greats like Bill Russell, Jim Brown, and Wayne Gretzky and just been thankful for the praise and then give the credit to others and not himself. While I still love him as a player, a part of childhood hero loved died and it's kind of despairing.

Now, there's a performer, a rapper, who I really like as a musician and even some of his candid boldness, but let's face it, he can a real doofus sometimes. Yes, I'm talking about Kanye West and infamous incident at the VMAs where he interrupted country star, Taylor Swift and just attacked like an idiot during her acceptance speech. Now, I don't care about the VMAs, am not a big fan of the pop-country stuff Swift makes or Swift as an artist, but come on. I do think that West, did some genuine remorse when he showed up on The Jay Leno Show and hopefully he will grow up a little from this. I've like how West in his music especially early on showed this dichotomy between his brash persona and him genuinely struggling and trying to be something better than that. Unfortunately, he's kind of just embraced the persona even more and it bleeds into most everything. While, he's not like MJ in my love and appreciation, it is sad that he just really did act exactly how our President put it, like a "jackass." It's just a shame to see and it is once again kind of despairing as a fan.
Finally, for the hope and that comes with a baseball player for another one of my favorite teams, The New York Yankees. That player is Derek Jeter. Jeter, a guy I really respect and love and have always seen as a class act pulled off a great feat. He tied and then broke the All-Time Hits Record for the Yankees formerly held by the great Lou Gehrig. I was just really blown away by his humility and his gracefulness in how he dealt with it. He seemed appreciative, but also wanting to just get the job done and keep going and with my fingers crossed bring another World Series to New York again. I just so happy that amid other ridiculous behavior by people in the public eye, he did the opposite.
Now, I'm not one of those people who are overly moralistic and want to shove certain "values" on people and be a jerk about it. But it is really nice and I do wish in my heart, we had more people act like Jeter than the others mentioned. Even though he seems to be a kind of exemplary figure that is rare in our present context, it is really nice to see that. So I would say. Please people look at how this man dealt with this and learn. I know I just as much as anyone need to heed that and hopefully, his behavior will resonate in other arenas. That doesn't mean people can't be strong in their opinions or dissent or what not, but it should be tempered with some grace and civility. So in an odd way, I see this as a cry and challenge to myself and others in the culture right now, let's be more like Derek. Even though he's flawed human being like the rest of us, I see him as a guy with a good proper behavior in this situation. Which despite my despair and cynicism, still gives me hope in this age.
Sorry for the long and ranty post and I hope that I said something significant in it all. If you are interested check out the video of Jeter after tying the record and then after breaking it in a following game. For links to the other videos, just see it on Youtube if you want, but I would rather not revisit them myself or drag them up again for anyone. Anyways, godspeed and peace to all.
Picture Sources:
http://static.open.salon.com/files/michael_jordan1242892345.jpg
http://idolator.com/assets/images/idolator/2008/12/kanye_west-gal-products.jpg
http://yanksfansoxfan.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c583d53ef0120a4fbda8b970b-800wi
Video Sources:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Nr56Q0UHcg&feature=fvw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQwYQHkVy9E







